OB Relationships: Can Double Dating Solve My Relationship Problems?


Dear OnoBello, please help a sister. In the course of my almost two year old relationship, I have gone from feeling like the luckiest girl in the world to feeling like I am being treated like trash or someone’s cast-offs. I’m 28 years old and here in Nigeria that’s like a huge deal if you’re not married.

My boyfriend hardly talks to me about anything and we have been living like two roommates with benefits. It has become so boring and the fighting and quarreling over the most trivial things has become a norm.

Asides all this drama with him, his sister hates me and neither does he even want me to be close to his family. Basically, I think he doesn’t love me anymore. I know I love him though and I have tried working things out with him even though he foils all my attempts.

So I started opening up to other guys and I’ve since met another guy I have gotten very friendly with. We’ve been seeing each other and it has been amazing. He is everything I want in a man; he’s sweet,he makes me happy, he talks to me, he listens to me and I’m beginning to fall for him.

Now I’m in a dilemma because I don’t know what to do. All I want is to be happy. Am I doing something so wrong by double dating just to find out where my heart should go?

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